Marriage, Society, and the Created Order

*Guest post by Michael Cooper. Michael serves as Assistant to the President at Criswell College where he is also pursuing a degree in Biblical Studies and Languages.

In a 2012 New York Times article entitled Strong Marriages and Economies an intriguing point was made:

The bottom-line message is that what happens in the home does not stay at home; rather, the size of families, and their stability and quality, has important implications for the health of the global economy.

The point is clear: our economy is directly affected by marriage. However, it is evident that marriage in America is on the decline. As the National Marriage Project indicates, the total number of marriages fell from 2.45 million in 1990 to 2.11 in 2010. In a country suffering from a lack of jobs, an unstable economy, and an unpredictable future, the role of marriage is crucial to our society. The question has to be asked then, “Why is marriage so important?”

The Created Order

What is the purpose of marriage and why is it so important? The Biblical worldview provides a solid answer:

Then God said, “Let us make man in our image, after our likeness. And let them have dominion over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the heavens and over the livestock and over all the earth and over every creeping thing that creeps on the earth.”

So God created man in his own image,
in the image of God he created him;
male and female he created them.

And God blessed them. And God said to them, “Be fruitful and multiply and fill the earth and subdue it, and have dominion over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the heavens and over every living thing that moves on the earth.” (Genesis 1:26-28)

God in His love and wisdom created man and woman in His image. God created man and woman to do something which does not include just sitting around aimlessly hoping that God will provide. The creation of the first man and woman was the first marriage and they were given a task. First, they were to be fruitful and multiply. Second, they were to fill the earth and subdue it. Third, they were to have dominion over creation. We could call this task of “creating society.” Consequently, it is important to notice that marriage is not a private union but a social institution. God created marriage to benefit creation. Dietrich Bonhoeffer said it this way:

Marriage is more than your love for each other. It has a higher dignity and power, for it is God’s holy ordinance, through which He wills to perpetuate the human race till the end of time. In your love you see only your two selves in the world, but in marriage you are a link in the chain of the generations, which God causes to come and to pass away to His glory, and calls into His kingdom. In your love you see only the heaven of your own happiness, but in marriage you are placed at a post of responsibility towards the world and mankind. Your love is your own private possession, but marriage is more than something personal – it is a status, an office.

Marriage between a man and a woman is the foundational building block of a society. Marriage is created to benefit creation. Without strong marriages a society (creation) will not long survive.

Social Issues

If marriage is the foundational building block of a society it is unfortunate that our culture is steadily degrading that social institution. There are several issues I believe are playing a part in our socio-economic decline:

  • Abortion: Under the banner of convenience 55 million babies in the last 40 years have not had the “choice” to benefit our society. Abortion is actually counterproductive to the whole purpose of society. As a country we have allowed the eradication of a complete generation that could have married, produced jobs, and strengthened our economy and society. As created being given the task to create we have instead chosen to destroy that which we have created.
  • Homosexuality: Without a clear definition of marriage the lines have become blurred and “for the sake of love” this social institution has become nothing more than a privatized union between two individuals. Homosexual unions are counterproductive to society for reasons that are obvious, one being that those unions cannot produce children.
  • Declining Birth Rate: Heterosexual couples are contributing to the problem as well. From 2007-2010 the birth rate has fallen by 8%. In 2012 the birth rate was 64.1 per 1,000 women. Recent articles have shown that if the birth rate continues to fall we will be unable to keep population stable.
  • Low Marriage Rate: An ABC news article states that in 1960, 72% of U.S. adults age 18 and older were married compared with only 51% today. The median age when adults decide to finally take that big step is also the highest it has ever been for both men and women — 26.5 and 28.7 respectively.

What Can We Do?

You might get the impression that I’m saying “Hey, all we need to do is get married and make babies in order to sustain our country.” Well, that is part of the solution. But it isn’t just about “getting married” and “making babies.” It is about something more foundational. It is about God’s creation and humankind’s purpose in that creation as God’s image bearers and how those truths affect the way we understand marriage and related social issues.

Part of the purpose of marriage is community. We have been created for community. We are relational and communal, and these are aspects of our humanity that can be uniquely experienced through marriage in ways that benefit the communities in which we live and, more broadly, all of creation.

Am I saying that marriage is the sole savior of the American socio-economic condition? No, but I do believe that healthy marriages strongly benefit society and could possibly further the social and economic strength of our nation. As a Huffington Post article states:

[There is] a real premium that men tend to enjoy when it comes to marriage … Men who are married tend to earn more than men who are not married. What we think is happening here is that the act of getting married, and often having kids, encourages men to think in terms not just of their own welfare but of the welfare of their families, and to behave more responsibly… Marriage seems to help men become more responsible, more strategic in their thinking and more oriented towards the long term rather than just having a good time in the present.

[Women are] more likely to accumulate wealth and assets when they get and stay married in part because they’re often pooling their income with their spouse, and partially because they and their spouse tend to adopt a more long-term orientation toward their financial well-being rather than a short-term orientation.

Liberals and Conservatives agree that marriage benefits the economy. But more fundamentally, marriage is important for us because God has called His people to be a blessing to the world. Marriage for Christians is Kingdom action. As faithful stewards of the creation God has given us, we can demonstrate what it means to “work and keep” the garden. As our government and our cultural pundits focus on the surface-level issues of jobs and the economy, we can orient them towards deeper truths: proper views of society, marriage, and our roles in the world living under the reign of God.

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One Response to Marriage, Society, and the Created Order

  1. Howard Atkins says:

    Throughout history homosexuals have been very productful and have contributed immensely in many positive ways to society. (Might I add, homosexuals are created by “Heterosexuals” and are loved very dearly by God.)
    Homosexual men obviously “can’t” have abortions so this is one area they are “Not” counter productive to society, a society which has, as you point out, over the last 40 years aborted 55 million potential contributing members of society, (I am personally very sad about that), yet homosexual couples have a “awesome” oppportunity to be very productful members of society should they choose to adopt a child which is currently orphaned, unwanted by their natural heterosexual parents, our country currently has orphanages full of children longing to be a part of a loving caring home.
    Least we not forget heterosexual couples where the woman may be barron or the man may be impotent, these couples may desire to contribute immensely to society in the same way thru the spirit of adoption and raising a child or children who potentially can become contributing productive members of society.
    Either way, my belief is adoption is a great option as a alternative to abortion since there are loving caring people in our society and community, homosexual or heterosexual, who desire to experience having, holding and raising a child whom would become a productful member of society, a blessing to the community, thus creating a trickle down positive benefit which would further strengthen and unite our society while helping our economy as well.

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